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		<title>Listening for my mother</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 08:41:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wolf Pascoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A Perhaps everything terrible in its deepest being is something helpless that wants help from us. — Rainer Maria Rilke A I began listening to my mother when she was dying. She had never listened to me. In the end, I decided I was the one who needed to listen. Our relationship after my father [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A thing is what it is, Part 1: Truthiness</title>
		<link>http://justaddfather.com/2012/05/07/a-thing-is-what-it-is/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2012 09:45:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wolf Pascoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“I should be content to look at a mountain for what it is and not as a comment on my life.” ― David Ignatow A David Ignatow’s little poem has always worried me. When I think I’m writing about someone else, say my son, am I really writing about myself? If I take action to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Whispers to God</title>
		<link>http://justaddfather.com/2012/04/30/whispers-to-god/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 09:09:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wolf Pascoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Come wanderer, worshipper, lover of leaving. Ours is not a caravan of despair. Come even if you have broken your vows a thousand times. Come, come yet again, come. &#8212; Rumi It’s the oddest thing, but I’ve started to pray. God is no stranger, but for me words have never been part of the relationship. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Of landings and forgiveness</title>
		<link>http://justaddfather.com/2012/04/23/of-landing-and-forgiveness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 09:20:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wolf Pascoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am content to follow to its source Every event in action or in thought; Measure the lot; forgive myself the lot! When such as I cast out remorse So great a sweetness flows into the breast We must laugh and we must sing, We are blest by everything, Everything we look upon is blest. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Pipers at the gates of dawn</title>
		<link>http://justaddfather.com/2012/04/16/pipers-at-the-gates-of-dawn/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 09:09:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wolf Pascoe</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Blessing]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Now it passes on and I begin to lose it,&#8221; [Ratty] said presently. &#8220;O Mole! the beauty of it! The merry bubble and joy, the thin, clear, happy call of the distant piping! Such music I never dreamed of, and the call in it is stronger even than the music is sweet! Row on, Mole, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Free fall</title>
		<link>http://justaddfather.com/2012/04/09/free-fall/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Apr 2012 09:57:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wolf Pascoe</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Humor]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I can fly. But I always I fly down. &#8212; Little Bear There’s seldom reason to drop out of a perfectly good airplane. But when my cousin Philip got leukemia, his brother Robert and I promised we’d accompany him on a parachute jump if he survived the bone marrow transplant. Philip’s wife Jill had already [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What we leave behind</title>
		<link>http://justaddfather.com/2012/04/01/what-we-leave-behind/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Apr 2012 09:12:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wolf Pascoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hold on tightly, let go lightly.  &#8212; Proverb This fatherhood thing. Is it me, or everyone who has a child? Lately all I am is sad, and it&#8217;s all I seem to think about. James Hillman used to rail against autobiography. Bly had a personal grudge against all confessional poetry. Sooner or later every writer [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Starting over</title>
		<link>http://justaddfather.com/2012/03/25/starting-over/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Mar 2012 09:30:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wolf Pascoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t it always seem to go that you don&#8217;t know what you&#8217;ve got till it&#8217;s gone? &#8212; Joni Mitchell Lately we’ve been visiting Oregon, and Oregon has been singing to us. We found a school for Nick, after he graduates from Fern Hill in two years, and went to investigate a month ago. It had [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Rain in Austin</title>
		<link>http://justaddfather.com/2012/03/19/rain-in-austin/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Mar 2012 09:05:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wolf Pascoe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The core of community is not good intentions or agreement. It&#8217;s sitting at the same mystery. &#8212; Michael Meade All last year the drought in Texas had persisted past reason and despair. Last weekend when I went to Austin for the Dad Conference (Dad 2.0 Summit), it rained and rained, translating the landscape into a soggy, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>On his own</title>
		<link>http://justaddfather.com/2012/03/13/on-his-own/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Mar 2012 09:53:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Wolf Pascoe</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adoption]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Used to be, Nora and I would wake up to find Nick snuggling between us. I remember mornings like that with myself as the child in the middle. No greater joy than diving down to explore among the legs and toes, wriggling like jellyfish under the covers. Lately Nick heads downstairs by himself, a thing [...]]]></description>
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